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A bit about Benjamin

I’ve always believed there is something ‘more’ than what we see, smell, taste, touch and hear… and now I know that Scientists think we can only perceive 2% of reality (98% we cannot) then I wasn’t far off.   The quest to understand more sent me in many directions and over 10 years used discernment, my own life and most importantly evidence of changes, to really believe that we do have control over our lives. Of course I can’t control my outer world – and I’m not sure I would want that task – but I can control my thoughts, my actions and my behaviours and this alone gave me SO more more personal power…and that knowledge is what I love to share.

Now this is where it really started to get interesting for me, I realised the correlation between how I was thinking, feeling and ‘putting out there’ to what I got ‘back’ from my world.  I realised what was going on inside, mirrored in my day outside…or as what many a book, teacher, philosopher calls…The Law of Attraction.  This knowledge has been made more and more mainstream by the book/video ‘The Secret’ to name one….many people around the world have changed their life by changing the one thing they do have control over…themselves.

So, why did I get into this? Well I realised there were millions who have read the books – or are new and interested in changing their lives – but seems a bit stuck…like they need a tweak to get back on track. A bit like someone singing slightly off key, they are only slightly off the note…but it doesn’t sound – or feel -good.  Over the years unofficially I coached hundreds of people to live better lives. During this time I realised I had intuition – well we all have it – and when I picked up on things with friends & family they were always right, so I started to trust this more and became installed into my 1-2-1 sessions.

Roll onto now, I am without doubt the happiest I have been, I have a great friends, a lovely house and am also travelling the country in my campervan Daisy. I also realised my true joy was helping people help themselves, helping them see the tweaks needed to make small – but massive – changes to their lives…all starting with them.  They resonated with the fact that they create their own reality but couldn’t see the bumps in their road, that’s where I come in.

During my sessions – or ‘chats’ as I prefer to call them – we chew over a issue, problem, scenario from the ‘universal view’ and using my intuition – and knowledge I’ve personally learned- I help you get on the note, get back in key and then your life will soar.

I have probably been through everything you have and I am can’t promise you an utopian life but once you start to take responsibility for your own life – and stop giving it away – you will feel a freedom like no other. I’ve made the change – and continue to do so – so if I can do it, then so can you.

What inspires Benjamin with his work?

At many of my talks and in my 1-2-1's people always ask me what to look at next. So below is a few people, videos and ideas that inspired me and just blew my mind.

DR JOE DISPENZA Dr Joe Dispenza is without doubt one of my favourite teachers and has influenced my life massively. He someone managed to combine the more ‘out there’ topics (such as The Law of Attraction, Quantum Physics, The power of the mind etc) with Science and -more importantly- evidence, something that isn’t always the case. I would seriously recommend checking him out, I have posted my favourite interview/video of his but find out more on his website www.drjoedispenza.com
The Secret - The Law of Attraction ‘The Secret’ was the documentary that truly changed my life. It really is a paradigm shifter as it instructs us that we create our reality from our thoughts, feelings and beliefs which mirror our into our world. As big as that sounds it really resonated with me as it gave me my power back in my life and I haven’t looked back. For obvious reasons I can’t share the full documentary but here is the trailer for you to have a look at and see if it resonates with you too.
Peter Sage This guy’s story is so inspiring, “His world was turned upside-down when he served 6 months as the only civil prisoner in one of the UK’s toughest jails, but ended up winning acclaim, friends and a national award for his work that changed the lives of many prisoners. In this TEDx Talk, Peter shares his story along with how you can deal with the toughest situations and become your best when life gives you its worst.” I personally got so much from this as I could never really have another ‘shit day’ after what he had to endure….yet still walk his talk.
'Grounding' or 'Earthing' I have always been ribbed for wanting to go barefoot as at any point I could then I would take off my shoes and socks…and now I know why. There is evidence building to show the benefits of walking barefoot or being ‘grounded’/’earthed’ to the ground. I know it sounds far fetched but have a nosy at the documentary and then make your mind up for yourself.
Dr Emoto's Water Experiment “Dr. Masaru Emoto, the Japanese scientist who revolutionised the idea that our thoughts and intentions impact the physical realm, is one of the most important water researchers the world has known. For over 20 years until he passed away in 2014, he studied the scientific evidence of how the molecular structure in water transforms when it is exposed to human words, thoughts, sounds and intentions. The extraordinary life work of Dr. Emoto is documented in the New York Times Bestseller, The Hidden Messages in Water. In his book, Dr. Emoto demonstrates how water exposed to loving, benevolent, and compassionate human intention results in aesthetically pleasing physical molecular formations in the water while water exposed to fearful and discordant human intentions results in disconnected, disfigured, and “unpleasant” physical molecular formations. He did this through through Magnetic Resonance Analysis technology and high speed photographs.” For me, if we are made of 70-90% water then the power of his findings blows so many things wide open into how our reality actually works. Also it shows the power our own thoughts about ourselves - and others- can affect our own body and energy.

Positive News

The power of the media is massive but we have a choice over what media we consume. I talk about limiting your media intake in the talks due to the overly negative bias of the news/media. It has to be dramatic to sell papers, viewers etc. I recommend more positive news websites, so have listed them here for you to have a browse and hopefully become your daily inspiration for news rather than the usual suspects…

See Ben live in action

View Ben’s YouTube >
'A New Mind -A New You' Talk Part 1
'A New Mind a New You' - Talk Part 2
Top 20 Mindfulness Tips for 2020 Tips to help change your life

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